https://pledgetalk.com/3-important-musts-angry/ because communication really matters Fri, 19 Aug 2016 11:54:09 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 https://pledgetalk.com/3-important-musts-angry/#comment-27 Fri, 19 Aug 2016 11:54:09 +0000 https://pledgetalk.com/?p=3068#comment-27 Perfect timing! The last few weeks I have been holding in my anger about a certain situation that is going on with someone who gossips at my church and who is involved with the recovery program. For over a year I sat back and watched her in “action” subtracting and dividing people. Everyone knows she gossips but because her husband is a leader in the church and is loved by everyone they just “let it go”. About 6 weeks ago I could not hold back my words for one more minute and I SNAPPED. I have not discussed the event with anyone however she has spoke to many about it, even including people in prayer. Which is her number one way she spreads gossip. The whole thing makes me sick. Using our sacred time with God as a tool for her to do damage control and her second tool is hospitality with cookies and coffee. I am so angry I even had a dream about her last week. My heart is for the brokenhearted and I know she does these things because deep down inside her self esteem is low…I have have attempted to follow God’s word in how to approach her but nothing works. I’ve been told by one woman who is in leadership that she feels threatened by me because everyone likes me and she thinks I want to take HER ministry away from her. Which is ridiculous in itself…it’s not hers..it’s Gods. This anger consumes me at times throughout the day sometimes when I focus on how she is allowed to get away with her insidious behavior.

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