Recently, I spoke of how kindness and beauty have one thing in common: they both attract.

It’s one of the reasons I love being around my wife. She is one of the kindest people I know. She makes bread for neighbors, regularly writes notes to family and friends, graciously helps to take care of my parents, puts the extra touch on times of celebration in our home and gifts we give, and more.

I personally experience her kindness through her tireless listening to me processing life and thoughts from the day; through her encouragement of me on a very regular basis in all my emotional ups and downs and times of self-doubt; through her love and acceptance of me and all my faults; through her cheerleading all my efforts to have an impact in the world around us. And because of this, there is no one in the world I would rather be around. She supports me more than anyone I know.

I remember experiencing kindness for the first time when I was eight years old at a church camp six hours from home, crying because I was homesick! The camp Director of 300 children took me aside, into his office and spent some time loving on me, and helping me through my pain. That was 56 years ago and I have a very strong memory still yet of that experience in my mind.

Kindness does that I think – it’s experience registers deep within our souls.

I remember attending some counselor training 15 years ago and partnering up with one of the leaders for an exercise of listening well. She suggested I share first about something significant going on in my life. I did, and within two minutes, I was surprised to have tears whelming up in my eyes. I wondered how that could happen so quickly! After just a few moments of reflection, I knew why. This trainer I was matched up with, knew how to listen well. And she did so very genuinely.

Again, my soul was moved and stirred to tears.

I experience being “kinded“ when undergoing medical care, and the caregiver is especially caregiving. I experience kindness by the smile and extra effort made to help me when I am in a store. Kindness stirs me to great appreciation when a neighbor stops by to offer help when they see me working on a project.

There are countless ways kindness can be expressed. But it always has this effect on me: I am drawn to the person who shows it. I even marvel at them!

Communicating to others, in a way that shows they matter is a way you and I can demonstrate kindness every day, all day long, in each conversation. It is what the principles of PLEDGEtalk are all about!
Tell us below about an experience where you were “kinded” by someone!